Kunal Roy
‘Date’ is often described as a ‘prelude to romance’. People falling in love love to go out on a date with those whom they love, respect, demand and promise to settle down in life. But it is completely your choice how to make your ‘first’ date a worth remembering one. It is quite certain that people have a lot of plans and programmes before they actually meet their loved ones. However, it is advised to have a certain amount of knowledge of that person with whom you are going to spend some wonderful moments either in a coffee shop or bar or restaurant or nearby sea shore. You ought to know about the likes and dislikes of that individual, step accordingly in order to avoid any kind of disappointment! The prelude must be imbued with fun, frolic , laughter, gift and honest proposals!
Honesty in a bond is one of the primary requirements. There is no other path to opt for. But certain factors are to be borne in mind. A proper dress, not a flamboyant one to draw the attention, a proper sense of punctuality , a proper appearance, a proper approach , a proper gift and above all use of good terms to impress the person. You have to remember that love in first sight may not be an episode for creating magnetic impressions. Maturity scripts the final story. Modesty in love is good, but the excess might make you commit a mistake! Remember you have a definite purpose and no single, irrelevant intrusion should be entertained. The moments are yours and the best investment of time and energy will hopefully yield the best results! Moreover, it is not a wise deed to disclose the facts and figures of your date with any one except the close and loyal ones who seek your good all the times! Becoming ‘green’ in envy is not an uncommon factor. So it is always better to think twice before you make your matter a bit public! An unforeseen disaster might be spelt!!
If your heart manages to send out the positive love vibes, triumph is assured. Learn about her qualities. It is needless to become possessive or use the words of flattery. The feminine gender is often a combination of brain and beauty. A high level of intuitive sense will be able to assess you within a fraction of a second. Chats ought to be preferred to anything. The whole discourse should be concentrated between the two souls. Connecting the two minds is predominant here, if not erecting a crypt of love! Offer her first, so far the food and drinks are concerned. It is completely a pointless exercise to flaunt your power and pelf. The reason is obvious. She loves your heart and the thoughts this organ nurtures time and again! Indulging in some intimate moments is a choice and never a compulsion. A tactful consent matters here. And last but not the least , a date is always a lovely affair, devoid of all mortal pains and sufferings. It is not a battle of nerves, but a long journey which demands love, patience, cooperation , simplicity and honesty. So next time you go on a date, focus on the person of your choice and preference, turn a deaf ear to what others say or comment. Believe in one simple thing : “This life is mine. I shall try to make the most out of it!”
– Kunal Roy